Our current generations which thinks that it is absolutely fine to have sex before marriage, sometimes forget that losing virginity is also one’s personal choice. People nowadays flaunt the number of times they have had sex and thinks that it is quite cool. And if someone who have crossed a specific age and they are still a virgin, then they can become a topic of discussion in their friend circle. People starts judging you as if you have done a crime for being a virgin.
Is sex a big deal? It is unfortunate that people are made to feel ashamed for their personal choice. People have shared on Whisper, the truth of society and how they judge a virgin.
Here are confessions made by such people who haven’t had sex:
1. I’m a 35 year old virgin, who plays Xbox all day and has never touched a girl. And I’m proud of it.
2. I’m a 30 year old virgin (male) by choice, but I feel like I have to hide that from people.
3. They make fun of me for being a 30 year old virgin. Aha, I don’t have STD and not nursing a broken heart. Who is laughing now?
4. I’m a 33 year old virgin. The idea of letting someone else see me naked terrifies me to my very core.
5. I’m a 40 year old virgin woman. I don’t want to be one anymore, but now I’m afraid of letting a man get close because I’m embarrassed and afraid he’ll think I’m weird for never having done it before.
6. I’m a 31 year old virgin man. I never had any interest in dating till I was 28, but since I started trying it’s been nothing but rejection. I wish I could go back to not watching someone.
7. I’m a 30 year old virgin. I don’t want to have sex with a random person but I also don’t want to die a virgin. Oh the dilemma.
8. I’m a 31 year old woman and I’ve never had sex or been in a relationship. I’m scared that it will never happen.
9. I am a 29 year old virgin, though I’ve been shamed by many for this. I am proud that I am waiting for the person I’m meant to be with.
10. I’m twenty-six and I’ve never had sex. I’ve never found a girl I wanted to give all if myself to like that.
11. I’m a 28 year old virgin. And I never see it happening because I’m so picky about people.
12. I’m a 28 year old virgin as a guy. I’m cute but it’s been so long I don’t know if I’ll ever loose it.
13. I’m a 35 year old virgin. No one believes me but it’s true and I wish it wasn’t.
14. I’m pretty and successful. I’m also an overweight 30 year old virgin. I’m terrified that I will never fall in love and be loved.
15. I’m a 31 year old virgin. I haven’t been on a date in 12 years. I think my inexperience and awkwardness is obvious, but I’m asked if I’m married and have kids.
16. I’m a 39 year old virgin. I don’t think I’ll ever get married. Big mistake.
17. I’m a 38 year old virgin who has never had a girlfriend. I fear what others might think if they knew.
18. 31 year old virgin. I’m really wondering if it is really worth the wait.
19. I’m a 35 year old virgin, I get so miserable I don’t know if I will ever find the right guy.
20. I’m a 33 year old male virgin. I just have never been confident with myself.
All of the above confessions have been taken from whisper.